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Post by supermommy on Jan 29, 2012 1:02:06 GMT -6
We have a condition that runs on my moms side. Our milk ducts are basically dysfunctional. I literally have to squeeze the 2 ounces I could get out and that was not without bleeding and pain that was so bad I would vomit. I could never produce more than that ever. I tried pills, supplements, pumps, consultants. So after 8 weeks of pain and bleeding I let it go. I will still try with my next...hey maybe my boobs will cure themselves? :-)
Whatever is right for you is right for you. Nothing is wrong with formula at all. Breast may be best but formula is great too, especially if it is necessary to keep your little guy growing and healthy.
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Post by gwensmama9206 on Jan 29, 2012 17:32:47 GMT -6
Thanks ladies I've been feeding as much as possible but when it just hurts to much from trying and/or doesn't seem like he's getting enough we'll give him some formula. Which he takes very well so I'm happy about that. I talked to DH about stopping breastfeeding if things keep going this way cause it's just SO stressful on me and he said he'd be mad if I stopped.... yeah... We have a doctors appt on Tuesday so I'll talk to her about it then and see what she says but for now I'm just going to do both. He has been sleeping better at night since starting him on formula too. Instead of being up every 40-60 mins, he's up every 3 or so hours. So that's been nice.
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Post by sharon on Jan 29, 2012 17:56:25 GMT -6
I really encourage you to get some help from an LC or a LLL leader before you give up. Most early problems can be easily solved if dealt with right away. I'm sorry this is so hard for you!
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Post by sharon on Jan 29, 2012 18:03:11 GMT -6
www.kellymom.com/bf/normal/newborn-nursing.htmlI forgot to mention - Kellymom.com is another great resource for infant feeding. This page talks about what to expect in the early weeks. As it says, weeks 2-6 are all about establishing your supply.
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Post by colleen on Jan 29, 2012 18:05:31 GMT -6
The only advice I can give you is keep doing it. The more you do it, the more your body will produce. I've heard that oatmeal will help make more as well. I breastfed up to maybe 8 months? I can't remember when I stopped, whenever he decided he didn't want food in the middle of the night. Things will work out, and it's okay to supplement, but I'd still pump while you supplement that feeding. Just keep working on it momma! Colleen
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Post by jo2 on Jan 30, 2012 6:11:10 GMT -6
I agree getting help from a lactation consultant! I BF four babies and I think the 2 week mark was probably the toughest time! I realize BF just doesn't work for everyone, but I would at least keep trying. If you can get it to work for you and baby it can be such a great experience for both of you...not to mention good for both of you!
Good luck, and keep us posted.
(I nursed my kids... 16 months, 18 months, 34 months, 3 years...with my first two I didn't realize I could nurse while I was pregnant. DS2 I nursed until the night before I gave birth to DD2!)
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Post by danikasmom on Jan 30, 2012 7:38:09 GMT -6
I totally agree with the other ladies to talk to someone. I went to LLL meetings they were very helpful. Here is the webiste www.llli.org/ you just have to look for local leaders and you can give them a call and they will meet with you. The meetings are once a month and they are a fun way to talk to other moms. If you do need to use formula it's fine. You are the best mom for your child and you make all the right decisions and don't let anyone talk bad about what you do.
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Post by lynsee on Jan 30, 2012 9:04:37 GMT -6
I didn't read all the replies but make sure you are keeping yourself fully hydrated and eating lots of protein and snacks! That'll help keep your supply up! I also liked to drink raspberry tea to help amp up my supply. I nursed DD for almost 12 months. Once she discovered cows milk, she didn't want me anymore!
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Post by jrose on Jan 30, 2012 9:16:11 GMT -6
I tried breastfeeding DD1 but it just didn't work out so she was formula fed. DD2 went for 6 months before she weaned herself off me Hope your able to the help you need!
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Post by healerarina on Jan 30, 2012 11:10:12 GMT -6
No offense, but your DH has no right to be mad if you decide to stop bfing. He isn't the one that has to get up every hour to feed, or be a human pacifier. Ask him how he would feel doing what you have to do. If you can get a pump, try pumping instead.
My DH actually encouraged me to stop bfing because it was hard on the family. DD1 would yell and scream and run all over the place while I was trying to nurse, there was no quiet place anywhere. She would act out more, lots more back talk and just downright nasty behavior. IMO, less stress is always better. My babies do better on formula, for some reason they don't like my milk.
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Post by jlschlangen on Jan 31, 2012 9:48:53 GMT -6
I never nursed they never latched on so I pumped for both of my kids. I pumped for maybe 6 months, 5 months. Yes, it got old to pump. Like others said do what is best for you & your baby.
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Post by love on Jan 31, 2012 14:45:00 GMT -6
I agree with Heal. I'm sorry but that is just so rude of him. It is normal to feel like how you feel and to add to the emotions of post par-tum every day situations. I'm sorry I find that so wrong. Hang in there hun. Is there a post partum nurse who can come out to the house (most are free) and you can chat with? I'm so sorry all this is happening. Unfortunately BF isnt all peaches and cream like some people say it is. It is a ton of work. Don't give up!
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Post by sharon on Jan 31, 2012 19:49:20 GMT -6
I don't think it's productive to talk to others about whether or not he has a right be upset or not (which is why I have not shared my opinion of that.) I think if either of you is upset you should talk to each other. Talking online about it from one point of view is likely to only increase the conflict, not bring you toward any better understanding of where each other is coming from. That's my 2 cents.
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Post by love on Jan 31, 2012 21:16:33 GMT -6
I don't think it's productive to talk to others about whether or not he has a right be upset or not (which is why I have not shared my opinion of that.) I think if either of you is upset you should talk to each other. Talking online about it from one point of view is likely to only increase the conflict, not bring you toward any better understanding of where each other is coming from. That's my 2 cents. Was this a reply to my comment? I think her venting on here is a great thing! Sometimes as women we need to vent and sometimes we get great ideas HOW to address the situation calmly. I took it as she talked to him about it already and he said no. So I applaud her for coming here to vent to her mommy friends! Wish I had someone to vent to those sleep deprived few months after my son was born!
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Post by sharon on Jan 31, 2012 21:20:54 GMT -6
It was a reply to the thread becoming about her SO being upset with her.
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