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Post by katie on Nov 3, 2012 9:03:38 GMT -6
Amy I just heard. I am so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine your pain. I will be praying for you, your family and your precious little angel. If you haven't read the book Heaven is for real I highly recommend it. There is even one for kids. This is a link to a youtube clip for a song called I will carry you. It was written by Todd and Angie Smith when they lost their little baby girl. May it bring you comfort. m.youtube.com/index?&desktop_uri=%2F#/watch?v=FlDUkp1Ts8A
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Post by AuntSueto4 on Nov 3, 2012 10:37:35 GMT -6
Katie, Thank You for sharing: This is a link to a youtube clip for a song called I will carry you. It was written by Todd and Angie Smith when they lost their little baby girl. May it bring you comfort. m.youtube.com/index?&desktop_uri=%2F#/watch?v=FlDUkp1Ts8A I just listened to this song, and I too, hope this will bring you comfort.
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Post by abixby1123 on Nov 3, 2012 10:48:47 GMT -6
Amy, I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am that you and your family have to go through this. I also wanted to apologize for not being able to make it to the wake or the funeral, but as we already have discussed, you know why! I pray everyday for peace and healing and that you and Steve, Nevaeh and Lily will get through this and will make you stronger than ever. we love you so very much and if you need anything, anything at all, dont hesitate to ask!
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Post by Samantha on Nov 6, 2012 16:55:40 GMT -6
Amy, I'm so sorry this happened to you! It's every mothers worse nightmare and it is so unfair. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Post by nevaehsmom327 on Nov 7, 2012 10:08:25 GMT -6
Thank you again ladies. Your unending support is felt in our home and in our hearts. People ask how we can be so strong, and I just keep saying "because of all the wonderful friends and family we have surrounding us". I truly believe you're only as strong as the people that surround you, and God has given us a TOOON of people, so while the situation SUCKS. It friggin just plain sucks, we know we will get through and be strong because of supportive friends like you ladies.
<3 <3 <3
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Post by bumblebee23 on Nov 7, 2012 13:09:22 GMT -6
Amy you amaze me! That's it that's all I wanted to say.
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Post by nevaehsmom327 on Dec 6, 2012 16:17:27 GMT -6
Well, we just got word from the medical examiner's office. The cause of death was determined to be Sudden Unexpected Infant Death. It's what I expected...but didn't think it would hurt this bad to hear but at least we know why now and know that she was peacefully sent to heaven <3
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Post by sarahisis on Dec 6, 2012 16:22:25 GMT -6
Hugs my dear <3
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Post by ballerinamomma on Dec 6, 2012 16:26:09 GMT -6
Hugs and prayers... I think of you every day. We pray for you constantly.
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Post by doeeyedgirl on Dec 6, 2012 16:31:19 GMT -6
Oh honey, I'm sorry this brings more tears for you. Prayers and thoughts for you daily.
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Post by bunsy on Dec 6, 2012 16:34:14 GMT -6
Love and hugs. Each of these "events" are hard. The day the death certificate arrives in the mail will be rough as well. Hang in there. Plug along. Be gentle with yourself.
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Post by lilmermaid on Dec 6, 2012 17:03:01 GMT -6
Hugs to you! Sadly there will be many of these days to come but each one gives you more strength to deal with the next.
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Post by irish on Dec 6, 2012 17:35:25 GMT -6
Hugs and love to you and yours.
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Post by dara1012 on Dec 6, 2012 18:29:26 GMT -6
Hugs to you and continued prayers.
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Post by momof3anddog on Dec 6, 2012 19:18:03 GMT -6
I am sorry. I really am. Each time I dealt with this in a professional capacity as a CPS Investigator, it was beyond difficult for me and my colleagues. SIDS, now called SUID, is an answer. But it still an answer for parents of the child who died, all the involved professionals, and the surviving extended family that seems so unfair. How do in your "heart-of-hearts" come to a sense of peace about the unexplained? Please know that at this point, with what we do know about SUID at this time, there was probably little to nothing you could have done differently. She could have died in your arms. You might have noticed, you might not. But even if you had noticed, there would have been little that could be done to stop her from dying and get her breathing again. And as a mother, who has 3 children now, two whom are on-and-off healthy and then somtimes deathly ill, I am truly sorry. For my twin boys, I was told on leaving the hospital with them, that for the first 15 months of life after birth, their risk of SIDS was 75% higher than that of a full-term healthy single infant risk of SIDS (as that would be their REAL 1st birthday). No one could give me answers as to what I should do to prevent becoming part of that sobering statistic -- other than the obvious that most of us know -- as well as the stuff that I couldn't do anything about anymore (eg. be born full-term, not be a boy, not be a twin, not be mostly caucasian) and to use pacifiers (they never would use them). But again, it is not the same as what you are going through. It was my worst fear as a parent that this would happen to one or both of my boys. Unfortunately it happened to you and your sweet little girl. I am truly sorry. Really. I think you are handling it with an amazing amount of courage and grace. I have rewritten and re-edited this 50 times. I think I'm doing that because, sometimes words are words. They can be so inadequate. So I'm just going to post reply and hope that you feel all of us moms on this site -- hugging you right now.
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