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Post by sarastwins on Jan 26, 2012 22:54:40 GMT -6
Well you could tell him if he doesn't help you are hiring some help. Or you could keep doing it all yourself and put your health in jeopordy, end up in bed rest and then it will have to be done by someone other than you. They may want to get with the program now because you aren't going to have time to do everything with a new baby.
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Post by cwolbeck on Jan 27, 2012 20:07:07 GMT -6
Amy, how far along are you? I have 2 weeks left. My husband is just the opposite, he thinks I don't clean well enough, I think that is worse, cause it makes my self esteem drop every time he says we need to clean this place up, when I have just cleaned that day. Also, he is never really here, with work, school, happy hours, pool league and just plain unavailable when he is here, always on his phone texting and emailing. Be happy to have your partner at least in the house with you. I am lonely all the time!
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Post by nevaehsmom327 on Jan 30, 2012 9:03:26 GMT -6
I'm 9 weeks right now.
I'm sorry to hear you're struggling through that. I do appreciate having DH in the house, but he sleeps a lot so it's hit or miss if we see him when we get home. So I do feel some of your pain.
Have you expressed some of this to your DH? I mean, I know I have a hard time with our schedules, and cleaning, etc...but I have also made sure to let him know what's on my mind about it. Especially if you're expecting in two weeks...it may be best to lay down some expectations. Sometimes guys don't do anything, just because there are not expectations that they're aware of. We have them in our head, but they don't know until we tell them.
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