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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 12:32:56 GMT -6
do you find it kind of odd to go out for lunch or do things w/ an ex-boyfriends mom?
This Wednesday I am catching up w/ my first ex-boyfriends mom. I found here on facebook. I am actually looking forward to this. I also find it a little weird. I will find it more weird if she brings him w/.
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 12:41:32 GMT -6
I use to be good friends w/ her. I am sure it is ok to still be friends w/ her and nothing to do w/ him right?
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 12:48:01 GMT -6
I am having mixed emotions about wanting to do this.
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Post by jrose on Oct 17, 2011 12:53:25 GMT -6
I personally wouldn't have looked up an ex's mom lol but if your friends with her than no biggie! All that stuff is all in the past and if you don't have feelings for her son anymore...why worry? I'm sure there's lots of married couples out there that are good friends with their ex's from a long time ago!
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 12:57:53 GMT -6
I have told dh I am doing this and he didn't really say much when I told him who I was going out for lunch w/. I have absolutely no feelings for the ex. I am happily married. I liked her so I facebooked her.
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Post by Sus on Oct 17, 2011 12:59:50 GMT -6
I am having mixed emotions about wanting to do this. Then don't... issue resolved....
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 13:01:15 GMT -6
A big percentage of me wants to go & do this. I don't go out very often.
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Post by apryllraye87 on Oct 17, 2011 13:01:31 GMT -6
I personally wouldn't. Just because I wouldn't be comfortable with my hubby meeting his ex-girlfriends parents for lunch.
But if your husband is okay with it, then I think it would be alright.
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 13:03:42 GMT -6
Maybe I need to think about it a little more.
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 13:05:13 GMT -6
Heck dh goes out for lunch w/ his a co worker occassionally that is female & he talks about her often at home so this should be ok then right?
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Post by mickeymk on Oct 17, 2011 13:08:20 GMT -6
Jodi....if you are putting this much thought into it DON'T do it. Case resolved. If you really want to go out to lunch with someone ask one of your FRIENDS.
I am with the others - wouldn't do it if it were ME.
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 17, 2011 13:09:37 GMT -6
Now you ladies are making me second guessing my decision. I don't have very many friends off of the computer. I know sad huh?
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Post by mickeymk on Oct 17, 2011 13:15:46 GMT -6
Jodi - WE are not making you second guess your decision. YOU were second guessing it and that is the reason that you posted this thread. Sorry.
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Post by love on Oct 17, 2011 13:33:23 GMT -6
If you are not sure about it don't go. If you only want to go to get out go out to eat by yourself. I think you think too much in things hun and get worked up about any little thing. I agree with sus too. I think being FB friends is one thing but going to lunch is another....I don't know. I wouldn't but if you want to go for it. If your second guessing then don't.
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Post by jlschlangen on Oct 18, 2011 7:34:23 GMT -6
Alright a little update...I chatted w/ dh last night about this and he doesn't care if I go out w/ her. It is just 2 friends going out. He also said he doesn't know what our relationship was like back then. We were just 2 girlfriends back then. So I am going out w/ her tomorrow. I will try to post how it goes.
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