About Me: Cissy

[cissy]

Yippie! Angel will help! I forget what the walls look like, will have to see what ones need painting. Wanna do the stairs?? Don't worry it is nothing like yours were.

[angel22]

Cool beans, will do! Let me know when we can set up our dates! =D

[cissy]

We have some time, closing is not til Feb 9th.

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[love]

Sorry to hear this. Let me know if you need anything at all. I am close by.

[doeeyedgirl]

If you need anything at all..let me know. Boxes, help packing/unpacking, etc.
Hang in there girl.

[cissy]

Thanks! We are getting this house because of the husbands friend and it is super cheap.

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[Stef (sjgross75)]

Cissy, I never come on here so I just saw this!! You're leaving us too!? Sorry to hear that.....I am thinking of u guys!

[cissy]

I would rather not leave you Stef, the husband failed once again and their is no way out so we have to.

[mickeymk]

I'm sorry to hear this Cissy. I hope everything works out for you.

[bumblebee23]

Oh Cissy I don't know how I missed this before. I am so sorry to hear about your house but I am happy you found something else already! I hope your home improvements go quickly!!!

[cissy]

I could complain more about the other house but I dont' want to be depressing before the holiday so I will wait.

[mickeymk]

So, are you buying this other house?

[cissy]

Husbands friend is buying it for us, we will rent it until the husband can fix his credit then we will buy it. It is getting bought now for $65,000, we have to pay closing cost, we have to pay to fix up the entire house, trim, floor by the front door, bathroom, new stove and fridge, if we can floor for bathroom and kitchen (which has to be done before we can move into the house), along with the ENTIRE basement. My most recent hearing is that he is then going to sell us the house for what it is worth, currently it is worth $146,000 if it is fixed up. So we are getting totally ripped off! We will be putting in thousands to fix it up and yet now we will be paying more for it. I understand paying someone to help you out but if we are paying for everything and you are only their because my husband constantly fails so we need your credit then wouldn't you think 10 or even 20 grand would be enough for helping someone out. The guy is going to be making 70 grand or more on this house for doing it. I dont' find that worth it, I don't find that this person is helping us out, I find that this person is just trying to rip us off and make all this money off of someone who is stupid enough to do it.

I tried to get a loan for a house, my problem I don't make enough money, my credit is fine, I was even told that I could get a loan if I had a co-borrower but I do not so we had to go this way. It would have even saved us if the husband told the guy that I only needed a coborrower for this, that could have saved us money but what do you know, the husband doesn't want me to be on the house, he doesn't want me to have more control over it and he doesn't want me to have any say in it. So I am stuck, stuck with this house that I don't want, stuck with the same stupid situation that I was in when we moved into this house which I didn't want. I try to talk to him about it and he flipps out on me saying I dont' understand any of it. BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH.

[cissy]

The sad thing about all of this is, at the rate at what the payment is going to be at the new house I could afford to pay the house and the bills. Yet on paper I do not make enough.

[mickeymk]

That does stink Cissy. I hope that TH will eventually figure things out and understand what a marriage is.....