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Post by lissa on Nov 29, 2011 20:52:34 GMT -6
Most of you know I left my husband over 6 months ago. It was the best decision I ever made. Well, I have met someone new and yes (you can judge me I don't care) we are already living together and it's amazing. The kids are so much happier and calmer. I am calmer and content. My life has never been this good. So, I am 31 years old. I am assuming I've hit my sexual peak?  SO is 40 and our bedroom life is AMAZING!!! When I was married I hated sex and it was a chore. I felt disgusted and gross. Maybe because we never were connected and there was some emotional/verbal abuse. In my mind I kept thinking, "How can this be making love when yesterday he said such horrible things to me?" I think that's why I hated it so much. Now, I want it multiple times a day. We get along great! We emotionally and physically connect good. Had some ups and downs but now we feel secure in our relationship and love each other. I know it all seems fast and crazy but really we are good! So, is this age and being 31 in my sexual peak? Or the fact that I'm wth someone amazing and it is totally making love and great sex? |
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Post by dara1012 on Nov 29, 2011 22:34:14 GMT -6
My opinion is that it is more about your relationship and being in love than it is about your body's sexual peak.
I love my DH he is a great partner and dad. We used to have great sex....it is hard for me to do lately due to some physical issues. I feel that in my 30's my sexual desires have declined and I hope they will increase again soon.
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Post by bumblebee23 on Nov 30, 2011 11:58:32 GMT -6
First I want to say GOOD FOR YOU! So what if it's fast if it is right for you it is right. I am so happy to hear you are so happy with life right now!
Ok on the other note....I would say that it is more that you have such love for eachother and you have such a great connection that is making you want to several times a day. There is nothing better than feeling so completely in love and sharing that by making love.
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Post by vq2011 on Nov 30, 2011 12:04:16 GMT -6
I don't have a comment about your sexual Peak! I just wanted to let you know that I am very happy for you!! Don't worry about it being so "quick" all that matters is that you've found your perfect match!!
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Post by nevaehsmom327 on Nov 30, 2011 12:07:57 GMT -6
I'm so happy for you too!!!!  Personally, I think it has to do with you just being HAPPY. When women are happy, we can have happy sex! And you're right, it's hard to think that it's good when the person just called you some dirty things the night before. So I think getting out of that relationship and into one where you see someone treating you RIGHT has thrown you back into happy land...happy SEX land that is  lol |
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SO is 40 and our bedroom life is AMAZING!!! When I was married I hated sex and it was a chore. I felt disgusted and gross. Maybe because we never were connected and there was some emotional/verbal abuse. In my mind I kept thinking, "How can this be making love when yesterday he said such horrible things to me?" I think that's why I hated it so much. 
lol