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Post by jlschlangen on May 28, 2012 20:11:32 GMT -6
We have a new renter moving into our apt. and I kept watching him move his stuff in this weekend. I am beginning to think I have a little crush on him. He is nice looking. Though he is hard to understand b/c he is Mexican. nice guy. Haven't had a guy living down in our apt. b4. He starts living in their next weekend.
Is it wrong to maybe have a little crush on him?
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Post by jlschlangen on May 28, 2012 20:11:56 GMT -6
Oh ya he is tanned, wears a necklace.
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Post by cissy on May 28, 2012 21:36:57 GMT -6
My question, how would you feel if your husband was having these "thoughts" about a female renter?
Now do you feel it is wrong to think your thoughts?
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Post by supermommy on May 28, 2012 23:43:59 GMT -6
Crushes are harmless in my opinion. If you have no intention of acting on it then it is no big deal. If you are watching him constantly and having desire filled thoughts then it is different. Thinking someone is cute and having that crush...is only human. I have had plenty of men I find cute go through my life and I even tell dh about them as we are open with things and it's never serious...my thoughts never go beyond the wow he was good looking! :-)
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Post by irish on May 29, 2012 7:36:14 GMT -6
I agree with Super. Having crushes is natural!
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Post by laurac on May 29, 2012 7:54:27 GMT -6
I think it's normal, too. It could be once you get to know him there may be things you don't particularly like about him and you'll end up wondering why you had a crush to begin with!
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Post by jrose on May 29, 2012 7:57:30 GMT -6
Although I think crushes are harmless I am the super jealous type when it comes to my husband lol! I dont mind him telling me about celebrity crushes but if its some harmless crush on an other person he better not tell me I might go a little nuts  |
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Post by sarahisis on May 29, 2012 9:22:27 GMT -6
not a little teensy weensy crush.. that's normal, but if you are noticing little details about him and you end up memorizing his schedule or find yourself hanging around outside looking for him... then it's an issue, IMO... If my husband had a crush on a girl and spent time watching her move her stuff into her new place.. I'd be super pissed.
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Post by jlschlangen on May 29, 2012 20:03:48 GMT -6
I would never act on any feelings. He is just a friendly guy, nice looking. Absolutely nothing more.
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