Ok time for some venting!

[gwensmama9206]

So here it comes... another bitch fest about BD! I've been sitting at home just pissed off and in tears and I hate that I have no where to go! I need to get some of this off my chest!
I am so beyond fed up with him! It's bad enough he has been sleeping around our entire relationship and that the homewrecker he destroyed our marriage for KNEW he was married! KNEW he just had a baby with me! And has met me multiple times! But yet the b*tch still had the balls to pursue my husband calling him, emailing him, sending him naked pictures of herself. UUUUGGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! And it's pissing me off to no end that he has been bringing her around DSD. Not only that but he doesn't take off the weekends he has her anymore and has that slut watch her! It's like he's rubbing the affair in people's faces and he doesn't even give a sh*t! He has seen DS ONCE since I moved out and has had multiple chances to see him but he doesn't because he's always with her and he was told she is not allowed around the family. So he chooses HER over his son! He wanted a baby SOOOOO bad! He wanted to have a little boy SOOOOOO bad! And now that he's here he wants nothing to do with him. But yet talks sh*t about me to everyone like I'm the horrible one not letting him see DS. And DD has been so messed up from this. He wanted to be daddy to her SOOO bad. He even talked about adopting her multiple times and now he wants nothing to do with her. I hate him so freaking much! I wish he would just sign over his rights and go far far away! And I'm still stuck being married to the dbag until he files for divorce which for some reason he wont! I would but the program I go through to get a free lawyer will only do it for respondents not petitioners. So I'm stuck being married to him until he does it. UGH FML

[danikasmom]

I'm so sorry!! I have a friend going through a bad break up too. If you ever want to get out with the kids let me know. I am a good listener and you need to vent!!

[laurac]

I'm so sorry, Melissa. You for sure don't deserve that.

and Danika's Mom is a great lady! Take her up on it!

[ReneeW]

Wow. I'm so, so sorry to hear that Melissa. No one should have to deal with that.

(HUGS) Stay strong, and know that there is karma in this world. He is acting abominably, making terrible life choices, and some day it will come back to bite his butt. And if he's talking badly about you, just remember that people will consider the source, and when they see/find out what he's doing, that says volumes about his character--or lack of it. The way he's living his life is pathetic. Obviously he has zero integrity, honesty, faithfulness. You deserve better in life. So stay strong, stay tough, cry and vent and yell when you need to. Better things will come your way.

[jrose]

So sorry you have to go through that!!

[lilmermaid]

So sorry you have to deal with all this! HUGS!!!

[supermommy]

Gah! What a dick and a half. Men can suck big time and currently yours is taking the cake. I hope things get better and he files for divorce. Thinking about you!

[dara1012]

So sorry you are going through all of this. You will come out stronger and when you look back you will be so proud of yourself for taking care of your kids and getting out of this mess.....I am sure it just sucks while you are in it. Hang in there and know there are lots of people thinking of you! Give your kiddos an extra hug when you're feeling down.

[AuntSueto4]

So sorry you are going thru this...

{{HHUUGGSS}}

[nevaehsmom327]

waaaait wait wait...that skanky sluttly bitchy little homewrecker is watching MYYY kid while he's working?!?!?! this is news to me. and now I want to cry.

seriously ladies....I know Melissa & I have talked a lot of shit about this guy, and it just so happens to be we both have kids with him, but he is truly and utterly the biggest, fakest, wannabe daddy ever. If only I could put a recording of all the swearing and yelling at me he did last night when I picked up my DD...while she was standing right there mind you.

Melissa, I've dealt with his bull crap for 7+ years now. I'd love for him to sign over his rights. Unfortunately, it probably won't happen. All I know is, we have each other to lean on, as well as all these lovely ladies on here. One day, he will look back and see the mistakes he's made. It probably won't be til he's 40, but in the meantime our kids see the way he treats us, treats other people, and know that what he does is WRONG. Eventually, even they won't want to be around him (DD is already on her way).

Dara is right, hug the kiddos extra hard and long when you're feeling down. That's what I do with DD. I'd never let her go if I didn't have to. Hang in there hunny...I'm right along with ya on this fight. The more we get to show his immaturity, and inability to raise a child, the better off we are. Love you!!!

(((((HUUUUUGGGGGGGSSSSSS))))))

[bumblebee23]

so sorry you are having to deal with this. There should be a special island to stick these no good deadbeat daddys teach them a lesson. Amy is right though.....one day his kids will see and begin to understand how he really is and they won't want to have anything to do with them.

Stay strong!

[healerarina]

Wow, men like him should be neutered. No offense intended, because that way he can't mess up anymore little kids.

[gwensmama9206]

Thanks ladies Love you all!!!! I was having a bad day to say the least yesterday

Amy- Yep!! The skanky sluttly bitchy little homewrecker is watching DD!! Whoa whoa what happened last night? Why did he have her on a monday? Weird. Text me woman lol

Yes he should be nuetered!! Chop that sh*t off!!

I'm just glad he doesn't try to contact me. He just tells people he tries to ALL the time and I apparently never answer.... Yeah.... ok. He told that to his sister the other day how he's trying SO hard to see DS and she was all, "Dude, you gotta know I know you're lying." lol Stupid a$$!

DS probably wont even remember him by the time he sees him again. IF he sees him again. I'm hoping I don't have to see him for a very long time. I would probably flip out. But there's always a chance since I hang out with his family.

Lol Vic- Omg yeah! No dbag junior! lol!

[gwensmama9206]

Danikas- Add me on fb and we'll get together sometime Melissa Ruoho

[jlschlangen]

Melissa I'd be willing to hang out w/ you sometime.