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Post by gwensmama9206 on Oct 24, 2011 18:54:51 GMT -6
I really need to do some venting....
So all weekend BD's dad's side have been calling my phone. Why?? To make sure I was OK because apparently BD's brother has been calling all of them yelling, name calling, saying that they will never see DD again. Pretty much just being a friggin psycho! They wanted to see if he had done the same thing to me. Which he hasn't called at all. And this all over DD going to Iowa with BD's ex step-mom (Her and his dad got divorced when DD was about 1 1/2- 2 but she still has a relationship with DD and BD's dad) a week ago. It was DD's great-grandparent's 60th anniversary party and they haven't seen DD since she was 2. They actually invited DH, myself & DD to go but DH wasn't comfortable with him or me going and I really didn't think it was appropriate to be hanging out with ex's family. But DD REALLY wanted to go. So since DD's grandma (BD's ex step mom) was going down for it I told her she could take DD with her if she wanted to. DD had a BLAST! But yeah, now BD's brother is freaking out on them. Last time I f*ckin checked DD is MY daughter! Not his! Who the hell is he to be pulling sh*t like that?! Thinking that he has ANY say in what goes on in MY daughters life. I told BD that if this doesn't stop the only people who wont be seeing DD anymore is his brother. If MY daughter wants a relationship with that part of her family that's HER CHOICE! I will not stop her. She has every right to have a relationship with them! They have done nothing wrong to her. I really don't give a damn what issues BD's brother has with them. NOT MY PROBLEM! It's not like DD was forced to go by anyone. She said she wanted to go. BD tried freaking out on me when he found out she went but I just told what I just said above ^ and that it wasn't his choice, it was her choice. I think she's old enough to choose who she wants in her life.
Ugh! Drama drama drama! Does this stupid ass not get that the only person who would be hurt in the end by all this drama is DD?! Nope! Clearly thinking is not something he does!
Anyways! lol Thanks for listening to my rant lol
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