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Post by vq2011 on Dec 2, 2011 19:28:57 GMT -6
I was told today that I am a VERY selfish person. Besides being told that I am a bad parent, this is the worst thing someone can say to me! What is something that someone has said to you, that really has hurt the most?
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Post by megs25 on Dec 2, 2011 19:51:30 GMT -6
I'm pretty sensitive when it comes to issue of parenting, because who doesn't want to do it right?! DS is only 14 months old and I had another student (also a mom) tell me that she feels sorry for my son and can't wait to see how he turns out - all after we had a discussion about how I don't want him in the school district we currently live it. This makes me crazy I guess.
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Post by ReneeW on Dec 3, 2011 16:03:57 GMT -6
As an independent woman, I was extremely offended when a boyfriend once told me that I was being needy. I dumped him immediately.
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Post by gwensmama9206 on Dec 3, 2011 16:29:50 GMT -6
I usually try not to let what people say get to me but I can be a really sensitive person. The worst thing someone could say to me is call me a bad parent, criticize my parenting in any way or saying ANYTHING bad about DD. You talk crap about my kid and chances are you're going to get hit.
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Post by deannemdm on Dec 5, 2011 8:19:40 GMT -6
I remember a few years (ok many) back when I was talking to my sister about a new job and she asked my what I was making and like an idiot I told her. It was a job in the field I was gong to be attending grad school for-- working in sheltered workshop with people with mental illness-- and she told me I might as well be working in McD's because the pay was low. I finally realized that talking to her made me feel rotten so I stopped calling her (esp. since it was long distance too)
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Post by cakemakermom on Dec 5, 2011 8:25:51 GMT -6
I had a bf that said he'd dump me if I got fat. Knowing the body type I have, I knew I woudn't stay skinny forever. I didn't need such a vain (and drunk) bf, so that didn't last long.
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Post by bumblebee23 on Dec 5, 2011 13:02:50 GMT -6
I have lots of people say some very mean and hurtful things to me that I really don't want to bring up again. It is extremely hurtful at the time and a lot of it has stayed with me but I try not to dwell on it. I do remember my sister in law once told me I was a bad mother because my boys faces where always dirty and they sometimes wore miss matched socks. I couldn't beleive it and I totally flipped out on her!
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